Devoted sex journalist that I am, when I heard that Seeking was hosting its first-ever Sugar Baby Summit, offering an afternoon of seminars for both beginners and masters of the Sugar lifestyle, I eagerly accepted the invitation to attend.
Who would pass up on a day of that followed by an evening of people-watching at an awkward dating mixer? Sugaring, in case you're new to the sweet life, is a type of relationship/lifestyle in which a Sugar Baby (SB) "provides companionship in exchange for being pampered," while a Sugar Daddy (SD) "pampers Sugar Babies in return for companionship." "Pampering" is obviously a broad term, and can include explicitly negotiated financial compensation — like an allowance, tuition payments, or an investment into a Sugar Baby's business venture — or simply gifts, trips, and other treats.
Those were followed by a masquerade-themed mixer, where SBs could practice their newly honed skills on a club full of SDs (and oh was that whole soirée delightful).
What are the requirements that you wish from your other half? Christmas is coming, who would you like to celebrate it with? How many times in a day, if at all, is it normal for people to have sex? What is the one thing would I not know about you at first glance? Whose wardrobe would you most like to possess and why? If somebody handed you a magic lamp and gave you three wishes, what would they be? What day of your life would you like to live over again? What is the thing that will make you think I am bad? If you had to rank how attractive you are on 1 to 10 how would you rank yourself? If you could redo any past moment what would it be? Which is your favourite ice cream, junk food and dessert? If you could have dinner with anyone, whom would you choose? If you had an extra hour each day, how would you spend it? Where did your family go for vacations in the summer? Can you give me a mock session of how you would teach sex education to a child? Your first date where did you go, what did you do and how long did the relationship last? 200 Questions To Ask A Guy What has been your scariest dream? Sugar Baby mentality is the same as alpha male mentality — you have ambition, you're dreaming for more.""I feel like such a lady boss," veteran Sugar Baby Chelsea Ridenour tells the crowd during one seminar.
"It's about looking for what you want, knowing your boundaries, being smart, going after what you want."There are plenty of women who live both as Sugar Babies and as active feminists — the two are not mutually exclusive. When you encounter a sad moment, what would you do? If you found someone's wallet and there was a 0 bill inside, what would you do with it? What is the most dangerous thing you have ever done? Which is your favourite asset/body part on a man/woman and why? If our relationship doesnt work out, do you think we can remain friends? Can you think of something you craved for when you were young and were denied? If you could do any job you wanted to, what would it be? If you had to choose, would you rather be rich or famous? What is the funniest thing that has ever happened to you? What holiday do you enjoy the most and how do you celebrate it? What do you think is the most important thing in your life? Is taking a pen or scratch pad from work considered stealing? If you had to pick a car to describe you which one would it be? The one argument your parents had, that you would try and avoid with your partner? What upsets you most in a relationship and what makes you the happiest? If someone told you they saw me with another guy, what would your first reaction be? What's the best piece of advice anyone has ever given you? What's the craziest dare you've ever gone through with? If you could live anywhere other than here, where would it be and why? What do you think is the most important value in a relationship or friendship?What is anti-feminist, however, is how the Summit undermined its attempt to empower women by encouraging dishonesty and manipulation dressed up as ~flirtatious teasing~ and coquettishness.Of course, these tactics have their place in any power dynamic. What would you like me to call you as, other than your name?