Studies show that between 75% to 93% of communication is non-verbal.
The more selfhood, charm, humor and intelligence you convey the more you will seem worthy of attention. You may get only a polite "No thanks" but that is better than dead silence. Match.com, on the other hand, leans towards more conventional relationships while e Harmony is specifically marketed towards (straight) people who are looking to get married ASAP while Plenty of Fish is the dating equivalent of a long weekend in Innsmouth.You also have to consider where and how to present your best self.Funnily enough most dominant women are looking for individuals.
And while she may want to know how you look in petticoats she probably wants a guy who is a man.
The checklist is a simple list of fetishes and kinks.
For each item note how you feel: Let her know if you see D/s as a lifestyle or a form of play. The more honestly felt words you present about yourself the better your chances of meeting a compatible Domme.
That I've tended to get along with dominant women online is the only qualification I can claim for the following. Will pleasing another, serving her satisfy you deeply, make you happy? Or is it really having your shopping list of tortures and humiliations filled that matters most to you? But you need to be honest with yourself before you can be honest with the people you approach online.
Poor fellow, you've emailed countless Dommes and none of them write back. You've expressed your willingness to do "anything." What more could they ask? While some Dommes are only looking for lifestyle slaves others seek play partners.
All of this subconscious presentation and filtering is lost in online dating; all we have are our words and our photos, so we have to consider how to craft as attractive a snapshot of ourselves as possible.