Once I imagined this version of myself, the “steps” to get there became clearer to me. LEARN HOW TO “TALK TO YOURSELF”There’s an area of psychology commonly called ‘internal dialogue’ or ‘self talk.’ Simply put, it’s the way you sound inside your own head.And they will for you, too…but again, that’s for LATER. Men whose “inner game” is crippled by fear, shyness, doubt, and insecurity spend a majority of the time talking NEGATIVELY to themselves instead of POSITIVELY.
How a man feels about himself deep inside — also known as his “inner game” — is his key to finding and building a great relationship.
Nothing worthwhile is easy…and when it comes to dating success, it couldn’t be more true.
It’s a feedback loop of negativity that starts creating its own negative results in your life…
dictating that you’ll react badly to situations and therefore get bad results. Do whatever you have to do to you remember to be nice to yourself and let the bruises of all that “bad” self-talk begin to heal. DRAW UP A VERY SIMPLE ACTION PLANSteps #1 and #2 are all about stopping the bleeding of your bad “inner game” attitude.
While the term has several meanings, the most frequent usage refers to two people exploring whether they are romantically or sexually compatible by participating in dates with the other.
With the use of modern technology, people can date via telephone or computer or meet in person.But fair warning: For now, do NOT worry about how you’ll actually become that guy.Just stick to imagining some ways that you’ll be different once you’re sharing your life with a great woman.But when it isn’t happening for some guys, they immediately jump to a devastating conclusion: “There must be something wrong with me.” If you’re a guy who’s suffering from this state of mind right now, I’ve got news for you: Without the right “inner game” attitude (also known as how you feel about yourself on the inside), it’s almost impossible to succeed with women, or anything else in life.But the good news is that taking just a few simple steps can change everything.and then the kind of person they need to “become” to achieve it.